Finances, Friendships, and Pivots.
Change.
It’s a word that feels exhilarating and terrifying all at once. Whether it’s a new job (or losing one), evolving friendships, or making serious financial moves, life will always offer moments when we are called to pivot.
For many of us — especially in today’s unpredictable world — these pivots aren’t optional. They’re necessary for survival and growth.
I know this because I’ve lived it. And from my inbox, I know many of you are living it too.
The Power of Showing Up — For Others and Yourself
Before we get into the heavy stuff, let’s start with something lighter — friendship.
Recently, I braved cold rain and sleet to see Kid Fury and Crystal from The Read Podcast live. It would’ve been easy to cancel and stay warm at home. But I went because friendship requires showing up, even when life makes it inconvenient.
Those laughs, inside jokes, and real conversations? Worth every soggy step. Moments like these remind us: relationships, like careers and finances, need intentional nurturing.
Career Pivots: From Stability to Uncertainty and Back Again
When Bri wrote in about being laid off from her nonprofit job and losing a promising public health research position, her worry was palpable. Sound familiar?
Whether you work in government, nonprofit, tech, or beyond — many industries are tightening their belts. The key isn’t to panic. It’s to pivot smart.
Leverage transferable skills. Bri’s public health background gives her sharp data analysis chops, which are valuable everywhere from consulting firms to education.
Stay flexible. The job title or sector may change, but your value remains. Cast a wide net.
Consider entrepreneurship. Bri’s Pilates certification opens doors to launch her own LLC, creating multiple income streams.
Document everything. Save performance praise, testimonials, and results. These receipts matter when telling your story to new employers or clients.
Remember: pivots are not regressions. They’re part of the process.
Financial Healing: Release Shame and Reclaim Power
E reached out about financial mistakes that still weigh heavy in her late twenties. She wants to travel, buy a home, and live debt-free — but shame often stands in the way.
Here’s the truth: money mistakes are part of adulthood. They do not define you.
Radically accept your reality. Shame keeps you stuck. Acceptance lets you plan.
Strategize smart paydowns. Prioritize newer debts that weigh more on your credit score.
Negotiate if needed. Older debts with collectors? Often negotiable.
Avoid lifestyle inflation. Prioritize needs and goals over wants.
Celebrate wins. Every paid bill or new saving habit is a victory. Mark them.
There’s no age limit on financial transformation. Every step forward matters.
The Blueprint: You Are Capable of Big Things
Whether it’s friendships, careers, or finances — transitions are rarely smooth. They ask us to stretch, to rethink, and to sometimes start over.
But if there’s anything I hope you take away from today’s reflections, it’s this:
Your journey is not defined by layoffs, financial missteps, or changing circles.
Your journey is defined by how you pivot and push forward.
So yes — keep applying. Keep saving. Keep showing up for your friends.
Keep believing that no matter what season you’re in right now...
